Three important lessons my students taught me
Ƶ a year ago, I made the decision to serve with City Year. After graduating from college,I chose to leave Ohio and move𱹱hours from home. Coming to Milwaukee wasreally scaryand intimidating. I had a lot to learn, not only with my adult life but with my students and service. I spent most of the year wondering if they were understanding whatI was teaching them, only to later reflect that they taught me so much.
Lesson 1: Adapt to what you are given.
The biggest lessonmy studentstaughtmethis yearwas how to adapt to what you are given. There were easy days andthere werechallenging daysfor my students andI.When there were challenging days, I realized that math wasn’t the most important thing. Being there formy studentsandhelping them sort out whatever was going on,would take precedent over complimentary and supplementary angles. Those could wait until tomorrow.
Lesson 2: Everyone learns in different ways.
When I was in seventh grade,I was very shy.The idea of asking an adult what they were doing was so scary for me. Even if the waytheywere doing something didn’t make sense to me, I went along with it. My students asked questions about everything I did. They taught me that sometimes my way doesn’t work for everyone. This may seem like the same as being adaptable, but it’sreally aboutthinking of what is best for the way my students learn, rather than how I feel I teach best. Almostall ofmy students would prefer to play a math game over practicingproblems that were easy to write into a session plan. Creating fun, new math games from scratch was not always easy, but it was so worth it.
Lesson 3: Always have an open heart and show grace.
In all honesty, the best lessonmy studentstaught me was how to have an open heart and grace foreach and everyperson—no matter what.They showed me that arough day wouldn’t last forever. At first, I would always be amazed that they could just let go of a bad day so easily, but I realizedit’s because they are incrediblepeople. My students are all so strong and resilientandovercomeany adversity, because they have such big hearts. They know that bad days don’t last. Having that daily reminder of leading my own life with an open heart and with grace was something that helped me through every situation this past year.
I am so heartbroken that because ofCovid-19 my year was cut short with my students. I think about them constantly and hope they are doing okay. I’m so thankful for most of my time spent with them, how much joy they gave me and how much they inspire me to do my best. Whoever is lucky enough to have them in a classroom next year will quickly get to know how remarkable they are.
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Ƶ the author:Michaela Hensley proudly serves as a City Year Milwaukee AmeriCorps member at Rufus King International Middle School. She is a proud alumna of Miami University in Oxford, Ohio. When asked why she serves with City Year, Michaela said, “I serve to be a positive role model for students everywhere, to make an impact in my students even ifit is small and to advocate for equitable education.”
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